{"id":63397,"date":"2022-06-20T21:32:22","date_gmt":"2022-06-20T13:32:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/?p=63397"},"modified":"2025-10-08T13:47:48","modified_gmt":"2025-10-08T12:47:48","slug":"dating-tips","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/blog\/dating-tips\/","title":{"rendered":"Dating tips: Must-know advice for men and women by body language expert Linda Clemons\u00ae"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Swipe rights, meet cute\u2019s, set up\u2019s, slide in the DM\u2019s \u2014 that, friend, is the easy part.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now comes the element of <em>actually<\/em> going on a date. And for a handful of people, meeting someone new can be a nerve-racking experience. It can leave you vulnerable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few dating tips would surely help, wouldn\u2019t it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We turned to <strong>body language expert Linda Clemons\u00ae<\/strong> for her professional advice, and she did not disappoint.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if you\u2019re curious about how to become the object of someone\u2019s desire, these pro tips will surely help you romance-wise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-the-power-of-nonverbal-communication-in-dating\">The power of nonverbal communication in dating<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Did you know that a huge chunk of your overall communication is nonverbal? At least 93% of it, according to Linda, who\u2019s also the trainer for Mindvalley\u2019s <em>Body Language for Dating &amp; Attraction<\/em> Quest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>In a sit-down with Vishen on The Mindvalley Podcast (which you can listen to the episode below), she breaks it down:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>7% is the words you use<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>38% is your tonality<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>55% is nonverbal communication<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<iframe style=\"border-radius:12px\" src=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/embed\/episode\/5fqfLqzEHvMp35iuh8wmAe?utm_source=generator&amp;theme=0\" width=\"100%\" height=\"352\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"\" allow=\"autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; fullscreen; picture-in-picture\" loading=\"lazy\"><\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A great example of what Linda means is in the movie, <em>Hitch<\/em>, where Hitch, a.k.a. the &#8220;Date Doctor,&#8221; teaches men how to not be socially awkward. Case in point: his client, Albert Brennaman, to whom Hitch teaches how nonverbal cues affect his chances with his dream girl, Allegra.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember the scene where Albert\u2019s dancing in front of Allegra at the art exhibition? His smooth dance moves show he\u2019s suave. But the second she turns around, he busts out his not-so-smooth groove (as is his personality).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>Your words are a small part,<\/em>\u201d Linda explains. \u201c<em>It doesn\u2019t matter what you say. Your nonverbal will get in the way.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-nonverbal-communication-exactly\">What is nonverbal communication exactly?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>It is the first language before the spoken word,<\/em>\u201d according to Linda.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your eye contact, facial expressions, gestures, posture, movement, distance, tone of voice, touch, and <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/body-language\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">body language<\/a> \u2014 all are forms of nonverbal communication.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s turn to <em>Hitch<\/em> again, specifically, the scene where Hitch teaches Albert about kissing. Fiddling with keys before heading into their house is the nonverbal signal women give when they want to be kissed, according to Hitch.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It is everything but the words coming out of your mouth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-positive-vs-negative-nonverbal-communication\">What is positive vs. negative nonverbal communication?<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Where there is a positive, there is also a negative, and it\u2019s no different when it comes to <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/effective-communication-skills\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">communication skills<\/a>. Here are the differences between both:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Positive nonverbal communication<\/strong> makes a person seem interested and engaged. This includes leaning in, making eye contact, and nodding on occasion to show they\u2019re present. In regards to their tone, they talk loudly enough to be heard but not <em>so<\/em> loud that they seem arrogant. Use this when you\u2019re trying to attract someone you like or to show affection towards someone you love.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Negative nonverbal communication<\/strong> makes a person seem closed off. Examples of this include slouching, avoiding eye contact, and crossing their arms. Even physical behaviors like cracking knuckles, biting fingernails, or constantly checking their watches can make the person seem withdrawn. Because dating can be a tricky game, there are oftentimes unwanted advances. Use negative nonverbal communication to show that you\u2019re uninterested.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to dating, friends, your cues will speak volumes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-is-nonverbal-communication-important-in-dating\">How is nonverbal communication important in dating?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s all about giving insight. With nonverbal cues, you can tell a lot about\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>How a person feels<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What kind of mood they\u2019re in<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If they\u2019re being genuine<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And likewise, they can tell a lot about you when you send out your signals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Unfortunately, in this day and age where dating sites are commonplace, nonverbal communication has taken a backseat to &#8216;the word&#8217; (and in the case of digital exchange, the written word).&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>While the online dating industry has created an effective mechanism for matching and accessing profiles, it has largely neglected the quality of communication between individuals,<\/em>\u201d as per a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/257253060_The_effect_of_nonverbal_cues_on_relationship_formation\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2013 study<\/a> on the effects of nonverbal cues on relationship formation.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thankfully, though, the results suggest that using nonverbal cues via avatars was associated with\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>More favorable perceptions<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Greater exchange of information<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A stronger desire to pursue a relationship<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This goes to show how incredibly important these types of cues really are, like subtle eye contact, a warm smile, or even a light, affectionate touch. And within the dating realm, they help us create connection and affection as well as <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/feeling-worthy\/\">feel worthy<\/a> and secure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2022\/06\/dating-tips-pexels-cottonbro-4630668.jpg\" alt=\"Subtle hand touch\" class=\"wp-image-64734\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2022\/06\/dating-tips-pexels-cottonbro-4630668.jpg 1200w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2022\/06\/dating-tips-pexels-cottonbro-4630668-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2022\/06\/dating-tips-pexels-cottonbro-4630668-736x491.jpg 736w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2022\/06\/dating-tips-pexels-cottonbro-4630668-442x295.jpg 442w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-tips-for-women\">Dating tips for women<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/dating-advice-for-women\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Women, when it comes to tips for dating, it may not be one-size-fits-all<\/a>. However, there are a few general pointers that can help you enjoy your next date to the max.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-use-eye-contact\">1. Use eye contact<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The eyes are the window to the soul, as the saying goes. Linda explains, \u201c<em>The one thing you cannot change is your pupils because when you get excited, the pupils dilate. So you can&#8217;t control that. The moment the mind feels your excitement, you can see that<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maintaining eye contact creates a bond between you and the other person. According to a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.frontiersin.org\/articles\/10.3389\/fpsyg.2019.01262\/full\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2019 study<\/a> published in Frontiers in Psychology, the highest degree of arousal occurred when clear eye contact was both sent and received. Once the gaze was blocked (either by sunglasses or blindfold), the arousal level significantly decreased.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&nbsp;[The eyes] allow you to see the beauty, the integrity, and the honesty of another individual.<\/p>\n<cite>\u2014 Linda Clemons\u00ae, trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s <em>Body Language for Dating &amp; Attraction<\/em> Quest<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-flash-your-smile\">2. Flash your smile<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your face is extremely expressive; it conveys countless emotions without saying a word.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In her conversation with Vishen, Linda talks a lot about facial expressions. She explains, \u201c<em>We have 43 facial muscles. We use 37 of them to make at least 27 different expressions.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">One of these is the smile, which is synonymous with happiness and is one of the most exceptional <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/what-are-interpersonal-skills\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">interpersonal skills<\/a> you can master, especially when it\u2019s genuine. It communicates friendliness and can help diffuse tense situations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-listen-with-your-head-titled\">3. Listen with your head titled<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Head movement is highly correlated with the way we speak. Nodding, lifting, and tilting our noggin\u2019 can send different messages.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For women, especially, listening with your head tilted is known to be a more <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/how-to-be-more-feminine\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">feminine gesture<\/a>. While it signals that you\u2019re showing attentiveness, it also leaves the neck exposed and vulnerable. This type of nonverbal cue signals <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/deal-with-confrontation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">nonconfrontational behavior<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1111\/eth.12412\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2015 research paper<\/a> looked into how the head tilt contributed to different aspects of female facial attractiveness. The results suggest that a downward head tilt is seen as more attractive.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-breathe-from-your-belly\">4. Breathe from your belly<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The way you breathe affects your facial expression, posture, movements, and tonality.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Breathing deeply from your belly is a calming strategy. It allows you to relax and pause, which then helps heighten your ability to listen and be aware of your emotional expressions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And as you relax, the person can get into cadence with your breathing pattern. This is a <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/mirroring-body-language\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">form of mirroring<\/a>, where they subconsciously switch their body posture to match yours.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This signals that you\u2019re both connected and engaged, and it\u2019s incredibly helpful when you\u2019re trying to make a romantic impression.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-subtle-touch-on-the-hand\">5. Subtle touch on the hand<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>We do not like to touch people who we do not like,<\/em>\u201d says Linda. But when it comes to people we do like? Our touch can create a loving bond.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are various types, depending on the situation. This includes handshakes, touching the person\u2019s arm or wrist, hugs, a pat on the shoulder, and even kissing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/greatergood.berkeley.edu\/article\/item\/hands_on_research#:~:text=There%20are%20studies%20showing%20that,aka%20%E2%80%9Cthe%20love%20hormone.%E2%80%9D\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Studies<\/a> show there are tons of benefits to touch. It signals safety and trust, releases oxytocin, and decreases levels of stress.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Keep in mind to do it with permission, of course. You don\u2019t want to chase your interest away with an unwanted gesture.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe \n src=\"https:\/\/quiz.mindvalley.com\/love-styles\" \n width=\"99%\" \n height=\"740\" \n frameborder=\"0\" \n scrolling=\"yes\"\n title=\"Discover Your Love Style\"\n style=\"border: 2px solid #A004EC; border-radius: 8px;\">\n<\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-dating-tips-for-men\">Dating tips for men<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The dating game may have somewhat changed since the days of yore, but there\u2019s still a lot of pressure on men. Here are some tips that can help you be more charismatic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-give-an-eyebrow-flash\">1. Give an eyebrow flash<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The eyebrow flash is a small, yet powerful gesture that often signals sexual attraction. For example, a \u201c<em>Hey, pretty mama<\/em>\u201d with an eyebrow flash \u2014 <em>swoon<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>The eyebrow flash is an exciting way to greet someone new or someone you&#8217;re attracted to or someone you desire,<\/em>\u201d Linda explains in her Quest on Mindvalley. \u201c<em>It signals goodwill. It says, <\/em>\u2018I am friendly. I welcome you in.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-stroking-hair\">2. Stroking hair<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Hair is not just a flirtatious signal for women. It\u2019s for men, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A <a href=\"https:\/\/digitalcommons.bucknell.edu\/cgi\/viewcontent.cgi?article=2980&amp;context=fac_journ\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2021 research article<\/a> in <em>Evolutionary Psychological Science<\/em> found that a man with locks has \u201c<em>socially desired aspects of personality (such as warmth, sophistication, kindness, etc.).<\/em>\u201d What does that mean? They are perceived more positively.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So imagine this: you take your hand and stroke your hair. The other person follows this movement with their eyes as it draws attention to your head. This then makes it easier for your eyes to meet. Cute, right?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-adjusting-clothes\">3. Adjusting clothes<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You might have heard how clothes affect a person\u2019s perception. In a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/256846903_The_influence_of_clothing_on_first_impressions_Rapid_and_positive_responses_to_minor_changes_in_male_attire\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2013 study<\/a> looking at the influence of clothing on first impressions, the results suggest well-tailored clothes can \u201c<em>positively enhance the image [men] communicate to others.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As a way to boost their attractiveness, men will often preen (or make themselves sleek, according to Merriam-Webster) by adjusting their clothes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if you\u2019re looking to use subtle preening gestures, here are some examples to note:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Unbutton the top of your shirt<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Adjust your shirt sleeves<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Readjust your tie<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As the saying goes, \u201c<em>Clothes maketh the man<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-crotch-display\">4. Crotch display<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Talking about things that \u201c<em>maketh the man<\/em>\u201d&#8230;ahem. Okay, it\u2019s not as crass as it sounds.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Let\u2019s take a look at that dancing scene in <em>Hitch<\/em> again. The space Hitch advises Albert to dance in is facing Allegra at all times. This is known as the crotch display.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s when a man\u2019s feet point toward the other person, legs apart, and with their crotch &#8220;on display.&#8221; It\u2019s also more prominent, according to Linda, when a man sits with his legs wide open.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This power stance is a subconscious way a man shows that he\u2019s present and interested.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-look-and-lean-in\">5. Look and lean in<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Humans are wired to put distance between themselves and anything unpleasant or dangerous. But leaning in, on the other hand, indicates interest and curiosity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In <em>Hitch<\/em>, there\u2019s the scene where Hitch teaches Albert about the 90-10 rule for the first kiss. He says, \u201c<em>The secret to a kiss is to go 90% of the way and then hold\u2026for as long as it takes for her to come the other 10.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So leaning in will indicate that you like them, trust them, or are interested in them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Additionally, Linda talks to Vishen about a <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/sjlvmDAP9zA\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">technique<\/a> she calls &#8220;recognize and acknowledge.&#8221; Here\u2019s how to do it:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Scan the room<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Catch the eye of your interest<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lean in, smile, and nod to them<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Look away<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Then come back<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Catch their eye again<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lean in, smile, and nod<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>What did I just do?<\/em>\u201d explains Linda.<em> <\/em>\u201c<em>There\u2019s a room full of women [and] I caught her eye. I made her feel special.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And as you get more aware of your body\u2019s subtle cues, you can use these gestures to take your dating life to <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/how-to-find-love\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">find love<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-great-change-starts-here\">Great change starts here<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We often hear that dating is a game. But if it is, then love is the sweet, sweet victory when you win.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But it all starts with your mindset \u2014 how you think about yourself, love, and the person you want to attract in your life. As Linda says, \u201c<em>Seduction starts with how you think. Whatever you think about, you bring about.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If this piques your curiosity, head over to Mindvalley and make a date with Linda at the <em><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/attraction\/?utm_source=blog_inline_link&amp;utm_campaign=launch_blda_july_2022&amp;utm_medium=end_of_article&amp;otag=mv_blog_bl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Body Language for Dating &amp; Attraction<\/strong><\/a><\/em> Quest. With her guiding you, not only will you pick up on more dating tips, but you\u2019ll also learn how to\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Connect with people<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Persuade people<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Get anyone\u2019s attention&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So go forth, friend. This is the beginning of a beautiful love story.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dating can be confusing. 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