{"id":65183,"date":"2022-10-11T22:17:43","date_gmt":"2022-10-11T14:17:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/?p=65183"},"modified":"2025-10-08T13:44:30","modified_gmt":"2025-10-08T12:44:30","slug":"dating-advice-for-women","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/blog\/dating-advice-for-women\/","title":{"rendered":"20 dating advice for women who are tired of bad dates"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A little swipe here, a bit of chit-chat there, and you\u2019ve scored yourself a date \u2014 <em>now what?<\/em> With all the bad dates you\u2019ve had, it may have been a while since you\u2019ve put yourself out there. So is there any dating advice for women that you can use?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Undoubtedly, the dating scene has changed dramatically since the days of yore (let alone from a few years ago, before the \u201cswipe left, swipe right\u201d culture came into play). Meet-cutes, picking someone up at the bar, or matchmaking isn\u2019t as common as they once were.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When all seems daunting, it\u2019s important to remember that <em>you\u2019re not alone<\/em>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Even Mindvalley\u2019s great females \u2014 like <strong>Kristina M\u00e4nd-Lakhiani<\/strong>, <strong>Linda Clemons\u00ae<\/strong>, <strong>Katherine Woodward Thomas<\/strong>, and more \u2014 have or are going through the same. And they\u2019ve all found one thing in common: love doesn\u2019t begin with another person; <em>it begins with you<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So here\u2019s a collection of their dating advice for women who\u2019re ready to put on that LBD, say \u201c<em>I am enough,<\/em>\u201d and go out there and rock it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-1-get-to-know-yourself-first\">1. Get to know yourself first<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For many, dating can be <em>so difficult<\/em>. What do you say? How do you act? Do they like me? Will I be getting a second date? And the questions go on and on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>The reason dating is so challenging is that many people are showing up to the dating scene with unhealed parts of themselves,<\/em>\u201d explains Neelam Verma, founder of Integrity Dating at Mindvalley University 2022 in Tallinn, Estonia. She adds that when this happens, people come into their dates trading \u201c<em>my wound for your wound.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Neelam Verma\u2019s dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>Every relationship that you have in your life reflects the relationship that you have with yourself.<\/em>\u201d So do the work and truly get to know yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-2-take-off-the-masks-you-wear\">2. Take off the masks you wear<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whether at work, in social settings, or even online dating, we all put on different masks when we\u2019re in public than when we\u2019re in private. Like Stefani Germanotta as Lady Gaga or Beyonc\u00e9 as Sasha Fierce.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/worklife\/article\/20200817-the-batman-effect-how-having-an-alter-ego-empowers-you\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">BBC article<\/a> highlights that by using a fictional persona, we\u2019re able to \u201cself-distance\u201d from ourselves, so to speak. Doing so lets us view stressful situations objectively and feel more in control of our anxiety.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019s more, the masks we wear are an extension of who we are or who we wish to be. However, the problem lies here: when we get lost playing the role of the mask we wear, we stop being honest with ourselves about who we truly are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So self-awareness and authenticity are crucial aspects of attracting the love you want. Move from your head space to your heart space, and learn to express who you truly are.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Neelam Verma\u2019s dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>When you\u2019re authentic, when you\u2019re real, you\u2019re open, you\u2019re natural.<\/em> <em>You\u2019re naturally radiant and you naturally magnetize people to you because you\u2019re being you. And when you\u2019re authentic, you drop the masks and you let your true self shine.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-3-give-your-date-an-a\">3. Give your date an \u201cA\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You may hope your date is going to be the best. But hoping is one thing; expecting is another. And so, ask yourself this: do you <em>expect<\/em> them to be the best?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s one of Neelam&#8217;s main points in her conversation with Vishen. She explains, \u201c<em>I believe that people show as you expect them to. It\u2019s like a self-fulfilling prophecy. So if you expect the best, they\u2019re going to show up the best.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Neelam Verma\u2019s dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>On your date, give everyone an \u2018A,\u2019 and you expect the best from them. This allows your date to show up with no pressure and allows them to be themselves.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can check out the full interview on Mindvalley Talks:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Best Dating Advice For Finding And Attracting The Partner You Want | Neelam Verma\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/XjX9p7BEhL0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Best Dating Advice For Finding And Attracting The Partner You Want | Neelam Verma<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-4-throw-away-the-checklist\">4. Throw away the checklist<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do you have a checklist of what your perfect partner would be like? Big, bright smile, check. Luscious locks, check. Body like Thor, check. Age like fine wine, check. A bank account that <em>ka-ching\u2019s<\/em>, check.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While those are amazing qualities to have, it\u2019s not <em>all the qualities<\/em> that contribute to authentic, heart-centered connections. According to Kristina M\u00e4nd-Lakhiani, co-founder of Mindvalley and trainer of the <em>10 Questions for Self-Love<\/em> Quest, when we follow these checklists verbatim, oftentimes, in the moment of falling in love, we ignore any red flags that may arise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kristina M\u00e4nd-Lakhiani\u2019s dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>Everything that doesn\u2019t match the picture of perfection, we sweep under the rug,<\/em>&#8221; encouraging to stop the checklist of perfectionism. Instead, see if the person\u2019s qualities match your values.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-5-check-in-with-your-emotions\">5. Check in with your emotions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Emotions allow us to experience life&#8217;s joys and sorrows. Unfortunately, sometimes, we let them get the better of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>The way life happens to us is that there are events that are, in essence, objective and independent. Then there\u2019s an interpretation we give to these events,<\/em>\u201d explains Kristina. She adds that it causes emotional triggers, and we often react out of those emotions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, if your date is late, you could think of a million different reasons as to why. It could, then, spark a feeling of rejection, and that can lead you to react against your better judgment.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kristina M\u00e4nd-Lakhiani\u2019s dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>I believe that the path back to you starts with emotional well-being. It\u2019s when we come to peace with the full spectrum of our expressions, with all our experiences and every emotion, that we are truly ready to return to who we truly are.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-6-kindness-goes-a-long-way\">6. Kindness goes a long way<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Dating can be messy. And the messiness comes with a rollercoaster of emotions that can bring out the dark side you didn\u2019t know existed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is where kindness is important \u2014 it has the potential to make the world a happier place. And its power lies in its sincerity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In her book, <em>Becoming Flawsome<\/em> (set to launch in 2023), Kristina writes, \u201c<em>Sincere kindness can be expressed in any circumstances when love cannot.<\/em>\u201d You don\u2019t need to love, condone, respect, or care about someone to be kind to them.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But in doing so, you encourage others to pay forward the good energy they experienced themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Kristina M\u00e4nd-Lakhiani\u2019s dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>You can be kind when you are sad, grieved, upset, and angry. You can always be kind. Always.<\/em>\u201d (And that not only goes for the people you interact with but with yourself as well.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-7-own-your-weirdness\">7. Own your weirdness<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>When you try to be the same as everyone else, it\u2019s boring,<\/em>\u201d says Vanessa Van Edwards, renowned behavioral investigator and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s <em>Magnetic Charisma<\/em>. \u201c<em>When you try to fit into a mold, you become forgettable. When you try to be \u2018normal,\u2019 you become dull.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What makes you unique is how you show up in the world. It can be seen in your creativity, mannerisms, thoughts, beliefs, and so on.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you recognize and embrace those attributes that make you the extraordinary person you are, it can help you have better charisma and confidence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vanessa Van Edwards\u2019 dating advice for women: <\/strong>\u201c<em>Just be yourself because no one is like you. If you\u2019re a little weird, own it. The right people will like you for it.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-8-embrace-vulnerability\">8. Embrace vulnerability<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many of us were taught that being vulnerable is a sign of weakness. And that couldn\u2019t be further from the truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, many studies have shown that displaying flaws is attractive. <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/iCvmsMzlF7o\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Dr. Bren\u00e9 Brown<\/a>\u2019s, in particular, looks into this unstable feeling, finding that when we, as humans, step outside of this comfort zone, we\u2019re able to feel love, belonging, joy, courage, empathy, and creativity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As you appreciate your date\u2019s perfect imperfections, remember to also embrace your own vulnerability.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vanessa Van Edwards\u2019 dating advice for women: <\/strong>\u201c<em>Vulnerability is sexy \u2014 it shows we are relatable, honest, and real. That is attractive. And the science proves it: <\/em>\u2018A blunder tends to humanize him and, consequently, increases his attractiveness.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-9-level-up-your-charisma\">9. Level up your charisma<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Highly charismatic people know how to be and spread warmth and competence, according to Vanessa, who\u2019s also a self-proclaimed \u201crecovering awkward person.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She explains that people who have charisma are able to:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Easily drum up interest in their ideas,&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have a memorable and lasting presence,&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Hake a positive first impression,&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have a lasting reputation, and&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Deepen the connection with people who matter to them.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While it seems like it comes naturally for some people, it\u2019s actually an innate trait that\u2019s inside you. All you have to do is learn how to harness it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Vanessa Van Edwards\u2019 dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>You don&#8217;t need to fake it till you make it. You don&#8217;t have to be loud to be heard. Whether you&#8217;re an introvert, ambivert, or extrovert, anyone can learn to be more charismatic and it will help you in every area of life.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-10-trust-your-voice\">10. Trust your voice<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>We have been programmed and conditioned for many, many years that our emotions are bad \u2014 they\u2019re crazy, they\u2019re chaotic, they\u2019re erratic,<\/em>\u201d says Rachel Pringle, embodiment coach and trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s <em>Wild Woman Sensuality<\/em> Quest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>You\u2019re being dramatic<\/em>\u201d or the like are often thrown in women\u2019s faces. And the more we continue to hear these statements, the quieter our voices become.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A <a href=\"https:\/\/www.forbes.com\/sites\/bonniemarcus\/2021\/10\/13\/women-are-encouraged-to-speak-up-but-is-anyone-listening\/?sh=269e7b477031\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">2021 Forbes survey<\/a> on gendered ageism at work shows that 70% of respondents felt that speaking up wouldn\u2019t make a difference. To add to it, 44% of those who did say something were only met with dissatisfaction by their managers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>We\u2019re here to rewrite that<\/em>,\u201d Rachel adds. It\u2019s time to activate the fullness of your voice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Rachel Pringle\u2019s dating advice for women: <\/strong>\u201c<em>[Use] the power of our body and expressing it fully, screaming at the top of our lungs, shaking out our body, using primal shaking.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Additionally, she suggests clearing out pent-up emotions by journaling, having conversations, or meditating. This\u2019ll allow you to get them out of your subconscious and into your consciousness so you can authentically speak your truth.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-11-reclaim-your-feminine-power\">11. Reclaim your feminine power<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Women, for too long, have been told they\u2019re <em>too<\/em> loud, <em>too<\/em> crazy, and even <em>too <\/em>chaotic. As a result, they\u2019ve been shamed into suppressing their divine femininity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Rachel points out that reclaiming your sacred feminity isn\u2019t about operating from only your feminine energy. Rather, it\u2019s about finding a harmonious balance between both feminine and masculine and cultivating that energy when needed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can do so with breathwork techniques to unite your body with its sensations and awaken your inner goddess.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Rachel Pringle\u2019s dating advice for women: <\/strong>\u201c<em>When your body is clear, you can hear your intuition and channel your sacred feminine energy into your whole physical body and live a life you desire to live.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-12-identify-your-patterns\">12. Identify your patterns<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do you attract the same kind of people over and over again? Or maybe you tend to over-correct \u2014 a theory on <em>How I Met Your Mother<\/em> where you\u2019re likely to date a person who happens to be the polar opposite of your ex.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You may just focus on how your love life happens to you instead of how your disappointing relational patterns are happening <em>through you<\/em>, as per Katherine Woodward Thomas, author of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.penguinrandomhouse.com\/books\/647144\/calling-in-the-one-revised-and-expanded-by-katherine-woodward-thomas\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><em>Calling In \u201cThe One,\u201d<\/em><\/a> one of the best dating advice books for women.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She adds that these subtle yet very significant ways that we relate to ourselves, others, and life literally cause the patterns to repeat over and over again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Katherine Woodward Thomas\u2019 dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>If you are operating under the illusion that you can continue to hold on to people who you know are not good for you, and still create an extraordinary life filled with love and fulfillment, then you are fooling yourself. Toxic ties cost us and they cost us big time. If you are feeling stuck in your life, look to see who or what it is that you are stuck to.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-13-transform-your-love-identity\">13. Transform your \u201clove identity\u201d<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For some of us, love only feels fulfilled when it comes from others. And over time, we\u2019ve ended up believing we\u2019re only as worthy as what others think of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">According to Katherine, \u201c<em>When we\u2019re centered there in consciousness, we actually automatically unconsciously show up in ways that generate evidence for that story<\/em>.\u201d And these embedded narratives limit what\u2019s possible for us in love.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So to create a big breakthrough, you have to overcome your false love identity.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Katherine Woodward Thomas\u2019 dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>It\u2019s hard to turn towards these [false love identity] beliefs. It actually feels painful. We want to get away from them. We want to get rid of them.&nbsp;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>But in making them conscious and seeing them clearly, that\u2019s where you begin to access the power that you\u2019re going to need to evolve beyond them and to awaken to yourself as someone who is not only capable of creating a healthy, happy love, but deeply worthy of this as well.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe \n src=\"https:\/\/quiz.mindvalley.com\/love-styles\" \n width=\"99%\" \n height=\"740\" \n frameborder=\"0\" \n scrolling=\"yes\"\n title=\"Discover Your Love Style\"\n style=\"border: 2px solid #A004EC; border-radius: 8px;\">\n<\/iframe>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-14-renew-your-intentions\">14. Renew your intentions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While knowing yourself, discovering your authenticity, and transforming your \u201clove identity\u201d is working on your past and present, renewing your intentions is looking to the future. And that starts with answering: <em>What I\u2019m committed to is [fill in the blank]<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Katherine explains that when you set love goals, you begin to identify with your future self \u2014 who you are inside of happy love and your relationships.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is especially applicable to online dating advice for women. Knowing what you want out of it first will reduce the likelihood of having to \u201cswipe left.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And as you start to see the ways you need to grow, your love goals pull you into that future you envision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Katherine Woodward Thomas\u2019 dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>Your future of happiness in love is not determined by your past. It\u2019s determined by the intention that you set in this moment.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can learn more relationship tips from Katherine on Mindvalley Talks:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe title=\"Improve Your Love Relationships with | Katherine Woodward Thomas\" width=\"800\" height=\"450\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/zEQlX8faxRw?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\"><em>Improve Your Love Relationships with | Katherine Woodward Thomas<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-15-what-you-wear-is-important\">15. What you wear is important<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Working on becoming authentic is important, but so is how you package yourself. The way you dress reflects your personality, character, and mood.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s one of the first things people notice about you before speaking to you. That\u2019s called nonverbal communication.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Based on what Linda Clemons\u00ae says in Mindvalley\u2019s <em>Body Language for Dating &amp; Attraction<\/em> Quest, you want to lure your love interest in, not chase them. The first step in doing so is to dress the part, especially in bright, colorful clothes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Linda Clemons\u00ae\u2019 dating advice for women: <\/strong>\u201c<em>Wrap your package and design it to be unwrapped so that everyone looking at it would wonder, \u2018<\/em>Hmmm\u2026curious. What\u2019s underneath it?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-16-master-your-hands-and-arms-gestures\">16. Master your hands and arms gestures<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/body-language-attraction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Body language<\/a> plays a major part in attracting attention. Your hands and arms are, as Linda describes it, \u201c<em>the doors to your heart.<\/em>\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So while folding your arms does serve a purpose when you\u2019re angry or showing who\u2019s in command, it signals closed doors when it comes to dating. It gives off more of an \u201cI\u2019m not interested\u201d vibe than a \u201ccome hither\u201d one.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Linda Clemons\u00ae\u2019 dating advice for women: <\/strong>\u201c<em>When you\u2019re speaking with the hands and with the open arms, it invites the person of your desire in.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-17-seduce-with-your-eyes\">17. Seduce with your eyes<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The eyes are the window to the soul. It allows you to gauge whether a person will be a friend or a foe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As actress Audrey Hepburn once said, \u201c<em>The beauty of a woman must be seen from in her eyes because that is the doorway to her heart \u2014 the place where love resides.<\/em>\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to dating, staring intently into someone\u2019s eyes may cause them to feel too exposed. So learning to flirt with your eyes can help you grab the person\u2019s attention and signal that you like them.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Linda Clemons\u00ae\u2019 dating advice for women: <\/strong>\u201c<em>Never hold a gaze more than four seconds. \u2026 If you do that during the initial contact, it\u2019s like an attack is about to take place. And what happens? It can generate an unexplained negative feeling towards you, and you don\u2019t understand why.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Need a little convincing? 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Develop a magnetic smile<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The smile is one of the major currencies in seduction. It\u2019s what lures people in.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So much so that a <a href=\"https:\/\/aacd.com\/cmsproxy\/236\/files\/A%20Picture%20Perfect%20Smile.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">survey<\/a> by the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry found that 45% of the participants agree a smile is the most attractive feature, regardless of age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In a social setting, the purpose of smiling is to make an impact and a connection. So make it a new habit, using your eye and mouth muscles to turn your frown upside down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Linda Clemons\u00ae\u2019 dating advice for women: <\/strong>Make a new habit of smiling. She adds, \u201c<em>This is the most important and inexpensive gift that you can give someone. And it\u2019s acceptable and recognized around the world.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-19-open-up-to-body-talk\">19. Open up to body talk<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are a few body power zones that you can use to invite in the object of your desire. These consist of your\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Throat<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Heart<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Belly button<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Reproductive area<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>All of this is important because it helps you establish that connection,<\/em>\u201d says Linda. And when you cut off these power zones, it\u2019s like cutting off electricity \u2014 there\u2019s a disruption in what you want to do and where you want to go.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Linda Clemons\u00ae\u2019 dating advice for women:<\/strong> \u201c<em>Open eye, lean, and beam<\/em>\u201d \u2014 that\u2019s Linda\u2019s love jingle. This is what it stands for:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Open eye: Your body language is open with eye contact.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Lean: You\u2019re leaning in to show you\u2019re interested.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Beam: The excitement that radiates within you.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-bonus-dating-tips\">20. Bonus dating tips<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are so many aspects to love and every potential partner is unique, so there\u2019s no such thing as a one-size-fits-all approach to it. 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Here are some you can start with:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong><em>10 Questions for Self-Love<\/em> with Kristina M\u00e4nd-Lakhiani. <\/strong>Learn how to love and accept yourself the way you are and find strength in that.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Magnetic Charisma<\/em> with Vanessa Van Edwards.<\/strong> Explore how to develop your powerful presence, nurture deeper relationships, and become a master of human connection.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Wild Woman Sensuality<\/em> with Rachel Pringle.<\/strong> Learn feminine embodiment practices to release your inner blocks and reconnect with your sacred sensual energy.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Calling In the One<\/em> with Katherine Woodward Thomas. <\/strong>Discover the methods to uncover breakthroughs and insights so you can shape your romantic destiny.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong><em>Body Language for Dating &amp; Attraction<\/em> with Linda Clemons\u00ae. <\/strong>Master the methods to be instantly irresistible to the man you set your eye on and show up as your most authentic self on every date.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Whenever you\u2019re ready to open yourself up to the possibilities, you can <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/signup\/?utm_source=blog_inline_link&amp;utm_campaign=evergreen_freemium&amp;utm_medium=end_of_article&amp;otag=mv_blog_freemium\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sign up to Mindvalley<\/a><\/strong> and sample some quest classes for free. 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