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\u201cIt\u2019s all about knowing your angles and working them<\/em>,\u201d as Tyra Banks famously said on America\u2019s Next Top Model. Because, let\u2019s be real, in today\u2019s social media-dominated world, taking pictures is an integral part of our lives.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Knowing how to pose for pictures<\/strong>, whether it’s a selfie or a group shot, can do more than just save the time and effort that comes with “Wait, I look weird; take another one!<\/em>” It can also help capture memories and make you look your best in any photo op.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Granted, posing for pictures can be daunting for many, especially when you want to look confident, relaxed, and natural. Luckily, Paulius Staniunas<\/strong>, a professional photographer and founder of All Is Amazing, is here to share his wisdom on how to pose for pictures like a pro.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

From finding the right lighting to positioning your body, Paulius\u2019 posing tips will help you work those angles to capture the perfect shot every time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

How to pose for pictures: 3 tips for women<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

The duck face, the fish gape, over the shoulder, the Marilyn Monroe, and what have you… Because when it comes to knowing how to pose for pictures, women are masters at it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

It shouldn\u2019t come as a surprise, though, as a 2020 study<\/a> by T.J. Thomson, a senior lecturer at the Queensland University of Technology, found that women took selfies 8.6 times more often than men. What\u2019s more, they were also photographed 3.5 times more often than men.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

When they feel satisfied with their image in pictures, women tend to feel more confident<\/a>, which helps them connect with their higher selves<\/a>. So here are three tips to help you get started:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Remember your \u201cgood\u201d side. <\/strong>According to Paulius, take selfies to identify which side you think is best. \u201cMy advice would be that if you don’t know which side is better for you, look how your hair falls,<\/em>\u201d he adds. \u201cThe side where your hair falls on your eye is 90% of the time the better side of yours.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Use the triangular method.<\/strong> A triangular in a pose is \u201cthe empty space between your hands and between your legs.<\/em>\u201d For example, when you put your hand on your waist, you create a space\u2014in the shape of a triangle, no less\u2014between your arms and your body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Extend your leg forward. <\/strong>\u201cThrough my experience<\/em>,\u201d says Paulius, \u201ca lot of female models always like to look taller than they actually are.<\/em>\u201d The trick is to extend the leg facing the camera forward. Add in the hand on the hip for the triangular effect, and you\u2019ve got what he calls \u201ctall, graceful, and elegant.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you\u2019re in need of inspiration, look to celebrities like Zendaya and Cara Delevigne. Even Bibi Brzozka, a conscious sexuality coach and the trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s Waves of Pleasure <\/em>Quest, is a great source to emulate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Photo by Paulius Staniunas, All Is Amazing<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

How to pose for pictures: 3 tips for men<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Men don\u2019t tend to take self-portraits or pictures as much as their female counterparts. When they do, however, one study<\/a> found that they opt to shoot the photo from a lower angle, as a way to appear dominant over other men. (Fun fact: the study also found that women tend to photograph themselves frequently from above for a more slender, youthful look. So women, if you want to know how to pose for pictures to look thinner, try this method.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n

To learn how to pose for pictures, men can keep these tips in mind:<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Turn the body 45\u00b0 to one side away from the camera.<\/strong> \u201cUsually, when we come on set, we stand straight and don’t know what to do,<\/em>\u201d says Paulius. He adds that a simple turn of the body can create a more dynamic and interesting pose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Don\u2019t slouch, especially when you\u2019re sitting. <\/strong>Bad posture can make you look lifeless in photographs. You want to look energetic like Gomez Addams, not bone-idle like Lurch. Straightening your back up a bit can make you look more poised and photogenic.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Hold something in your hands.<\/strong> Holding a jacket over the shoulder, placing your hands on your hat, or doing the “cufflink\u201d pose can take your picture to the next level. These types of pictures are what Paulius calls \u201cheadshot-worthy,\u201d something that can even be part of your personal branding<\/a>.\u200b\u200b<\/p>\n\n\n\n

One additional tip to consider: look for inspiration from those who\u2019ve been in the spotlight for a while, like David Beckham and Channing Tatum, as well as Vishen, founder of Mindvalley. Pay attention to their body language and try their poses until you find yours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Photo by Paulius Staniunas, All Is Amazing<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Posing with friends and family<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

Taking group shots is slightly different than when it\u2019s just you and the camera. It\u2019s about the collective rather than the individual.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Knowing how to pose for pictures with friends is similar to knowing how to pose for family pictures. However, according to Paulius, it\u2019s important to consider the relationship between the people in the shot. He adds, \u201cThis will determine the poses you\u2019re going to do and the physical contact that they\u2019re going to have with each other.<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Here are a few dos and don\u2019ts when it comes to group poses:<\/p>\n\n\n\n