{"id":71997,"date":"2025-06-05T13:09:16","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T12:09:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/?p=71997"},"modified":"2025-09-03T18:18:11","modified_gmt":"2025-09-03T17:18:11","slug":"what-is-edging","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/blog\/what-is-edging\/","title":{"rendered":"What is edging? How to practice orgasm control for better sex"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Edging<\/strong> might be a landscaping terminology, but in the realm of pleasure, it\u2019s far from trimming the bush. It\u2019s also not flashy, doesn\u2019t come with a playlist, and you won\u2019t find it trending alongside rose quartz yoni eggs or the latest libido gummies.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For all the things that it\u2019s not, though, edging <em>is<\/em> a practice quietly gaining traction among the curious and the conscious. And its reputation is starting to shift from niche kink to mindful mastery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Edging is designed to expand your orgasmic potential.<\/p>\n<cite>\u2014 Layla Martin, trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s Neo-Tantra: Discovering Energy Orgasms and Deepening Your Sexual Connection program<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, it\u2019s not new. It\u2019s just been hiding behind bad sex ed, porn tropes, and a collective impatience to get things over with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Maybe you\u2019ve been skipping the buildup without realizing what it\u2019s trying to teach you. And perhaps knowing what it can do to your body, your brain, and your connection with another person will help make you come around.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-is-edging\">What is edging?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The \u201cedging\u201d meaning, in essence, is bringing yourself (or your partner) to the brink of orgasm, then backing off before climax. The focus, really, is on staying just below the tipping point. The result is a kind of prolonged crescendo, where each wave of sensation sharpens the next.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s a tool, really, \u201c<em>designed to expand your orgasmic potential<\/em>,\u201d as <strong>Layla Martin<\/strong>, a tantra and intimacy coach, explains in her <em>Neo-Tantra<\/em> program on Mindvalley.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">And what it does is \u201c<em>it trains your nervous system to be able to hold more pleasure, more turn-on, and more energy and excitement in your [nervous] system before you feel the need to release, a.k.a., have an orgasm<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s exactly what research suggests. One study found that when people were gently touched over and over, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S0010945225001170\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">the nerves linked to feeling good stayed active<\/a>. This suggests the nervous system can sustain sensitivity rather than shut down.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Essentially, edging works like strength training for your pleasure response. And the more you practice holding arousal without climaxing, the more capacity your body builds to handle intense sensation without short-circuiting.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>You can do this in solo play or partnered play<\/em>,\u201d says relationship and sex therapist Lauren Consul, LMFT, CST, JD, in <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tiktok.com\/@laurenconsul\/video\/7372936661275069726\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">a video on her TikTok channel<\/a>. And it can be incorporated in many different kinds of sexual intercourse, including oral, anal, and penetrative.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The key to edging, though, is <strong>learning to work with your orgasm instead of rushing through it<\/strong>. And what you do with that is where things start to shift.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2025\/06\/f36d23f8-img_0841.webp\" alt=\"the edging meaning against a night sky background\" class=\"wp-image-77308\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2025\/06\/f36d23f8-img_0841.webp 1080w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2025\/06\/f36d23f8-img_0841-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-why-practice-orgasm-control\">Why practice orgasm control?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Orgasm control gives you more choice. You get to decide when, how, and even if it happens. So basically, you\u2019re not ruled by climax.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Lauren lists a few reasons people opt for edging, which include:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Extending sexual activity<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Helping a partner last longer<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Exploring power dynamics<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Intensifying the orgasm<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Adding variety to sex<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Experimenting with new sensations<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Deepening connection with a partner<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Practicing sexual communication<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Using it as a tool for dirty <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/sex-talk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sex talk<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The thing is, most of us were never taught that orgasm can be intentional. We\u2019re unaware of the various erogenous zones and the orgasms that can come from them. And because of the misinformation on how pleasure works, we believe orgasms are something to chase, not something to work with.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, in <em>The Science of Great Sex<\/em> program on Mindvalley, <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/amy-killen\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Dr. Amy Killen<\/strong><\/a>, a leading anti-aging and regenerative physician, highlights that <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/28213723\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">\u201c<em>men reliably orgasm 95% of the time during partnered sex<\/em>,\u201d but women \u201c<em>only reliably orgasm 65% of the time during partnered sex<\/em>.<\/a>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>This is<\/em>,\u201d she says, \u201c<em>the orgasm gap<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But being able to control your orgasm can give you the upper hand in closing it. As research shows, orgasm control techniques can <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/27667356\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">heighten sexual pleasure and give you a better command over your arousal<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019s more, <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/29110806\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">delaying climax may activate your body\u2019s natural reward systems<\/a>. And <em>that<\/em> can deepen your experience and make each climax more satisfying over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-edging-feel-like\">What does edging feel like?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Edging is intense, electric, and deeply absorbing. The sensation builds in waves. You feel the arousal rising, your breath shifting, your body pulling you toward climax&#8230;and then you pause.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>You can do this once, where you bring yourself close and then back and then let yourself have the Big O<\/em>,\u201d Lauren explains, \u201c<em>or multiple times, where you go almost to the edge and back and almost to the edge and back as many times as you want until you let yourself or your partner come over<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This feeling can be both raw and refined. There\u2019s tension, yes, like inching up the final stretch of a rollercoaster. Your heart\u2019s racing, breath caught, every cell bracing for the drop\u2026 and that anticipation can be overwhelming, even exquisite.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But, as Layla mentions in her Mindvalley program, when you take it nice and slow, \u201c<em>the payoff is huge<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>In the age of apps and instant gratification and rapid results, we often treat sex like food delivery\u2014I want it fast, on time, and consistent<\/em>,\u201d she says. \u201c<em>But the best sex is actually not that&#8230; The more you tease, tantalize, and seduce, the hotter the final results<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not always what you think it is, and that\u2019s <em>exactly<\/em> why it works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-myths-and-misconceptions-about-edging\">Myths and misconceptions about edging<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For something so simple in theory, edging sex comes with a lot of baggage. Some come straight from outdated sex myths. Others run deeper.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here are a few that keep showing up:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>It\u2019s just about <\/strong><strong><em>not<\/em><\/strong><strong> finishing. <\/strong>The point is to build sensation and stretch arousal, not to shut anything down. It\u2019s a deliberate choice to explore everything that happens before the peak.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>It\u2019s only useful for men. <\/strong>That misses the point entirely. This practice is for anyone with a body and a desire to feel everything, deeply and fully.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>It\u2019s a fix for dysfunction. <\/strong>This practice works best as a form of sexual training, which one study found can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/389867230_The_effectiveness_of_sexual_skills_training_on_improving_self-control_empathy_and_marital_satisfaction_of_married_women_in_Shiraz\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">significantly improve self-control, empathy, and relationship satisfaction<\/a>.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>It means something went wrong if you don\u2019t climax. <\/strong>This myth turns sex into a race. The approach here shifts the focus toward the build, the rhythm, and the intentional pause.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>It\u2019s only for premature ejaculation. <\/strong>That\u2019s just one potential use. The benefits go far beyond stamina and touch on pleasure, presence, and deeper connection.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>It\u2019s boring, frustrating, or pointless. <\/strong>That depends on what you think sex is for. If it\u2019s about sensation, connection, and control, this experience opens a very different door.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you drop the myths, what\u2019s left is something far more powerful than most people expect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-top-5-benefits-of-edging\">Top 5 benefits of edging<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The longer you hang out near the edge, the more it gives back. Here\u2019s what happens when you stop racing to the finish and start riding the wave instead:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Orgasms that hit harder<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>More control, less pressure<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A deeper connection with your body<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Better intimacy with your partner<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A stronger, smarter nervous system<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you know what this can do, the only real question left is: how do you actually do it?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-to-practice-edging-5-steps-using-the-vita-method\">How to practice edging: 5 steps using the VITA Method<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You don\u2019t need a tantric altar or a background in <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/breathwork\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">breathwork<\/a> to start. What you <em>do<\/em> need is curiosity, patience, and a willingness to feel more <em>on purpose<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Layla suggests using her VITA Method to start your practice. It\u2019s a simple five-stepper that weaves together breath, sound, movement, and awareness and helps you explore the edge with control and intention.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The goal is simple: stay present. And as the sensation builds, allow your body to stretch its capacity for maximum pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-1-flow-state-breathwork\">Step 1: Flow-state breathwork<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Before you touch a single inch of skin, you drop into breath. Not shallow, distracted inhales, but full, rhythmic, <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/mindful-breathing\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mindful breathing<\/a> that sets the tone for everything else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This, according to one study, can help <a href=\"https:\/\/www.frontiersin.org\/journals\/psychology\/articles\/10.3389\/fpsyg.2019.01101\/full\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">enhance sexual arousal and influence oxytocin levels<\/a>. And it suggests that there\u2019s a neuroendocrine link between breath, attention, and sexual responsiveness.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>To begin: <\/strong>Take long, steady inhales through the nose and slow, audible exhales through the mouth. Keep your breath moving without pause or strain.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-2-conscious-touch\">Step 2: Conscious touch<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Conscious touch is the art of bringing your full awareness into your hands. Instead of touching to achieve or perform, you\u2019re touching to connect.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This kind of presence slows the nervous system, deepens sensation, and creates the foundation for everything that follows in an edging practice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Studies have shown that mindful, intentional touch can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.frontiersin.org\/journals\/psychology\/articles\/10.3389\/fpsyg.2014.01529\/full\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">lower cortisol, increase oxytocin<\/a>, and activate brain regions linked to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mdpi.com\/2227-9067\/11\/11\/1407\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sensory pleasure and emotional regulation<\/a>. And when you apply it to a practice like edging, it creates the conditions for deeper arousal and a more responsive nervous system.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>To begin: <\/strong>Explore your own skin with curiosity. Let your touch be slow, steady, and undirected. The point is not arousal (just yet) but to wake up your body, one inch at a time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-3-activated-sounding\">Step 3: Activated sounding<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Who knew a sigh, a moan, or even a low, grounding hum can contribute to your sex life?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But it <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC6189422\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">stimulates your vagus nerve<\/a>, which is the same pathway that connects your brain to your breath, your gut, and, yes, you guessed it, your genitals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you let sound move freely, you soften tension and stay rooted in sensation. No wonder when we stop holding back, the body starts opening up.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>To begin: <\/strong>Layla recommends inhaling and feeling, then exhaling with moaning, sighing, or whatever feels authentic to you. Do this for at least seven breath cycles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-4-self-pleasure-with-full-body-energy-wave\">Step 4: Self-pleasure with full-body energy wave<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now the heat builds. This is where arousal meets awareness. And you begin touching yourself with the intention of building sensation and letting it move.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>So you\u2019re self-pleasuring<\/em>,\u201d says Layla, \u201c<em>and as you feel the pleasure, you\u2019re going to inhale, feel that energy waving all the way up, exhale, feeling it come down<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mind you, though, this form of mindful <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/benefits-of-masturbation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">masturbation<\/a> focuses on building energy rather than chasing release.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>To begin: <\/strong>Layla uses a simple scale: zero is no arousal, five feels good, and ten is orgasm. You aim for an eight or nine, hovering just on the edge<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you get there, stop. Let the wave settle. Let your body cool to a five or six before starting again.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-step-5-repeat\">Step 5: Repeat<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is where it becomes a practice. Because, as research shows, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41586-024-07425-w\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">doing something over and over strengthens memory patterns in your brain<\/a>, and that makes responses more automatic and refined over time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So when you&#8217;re edging on repeat, you\u2019re training your body and mind to respond more profoundly to pleasure. That leads to more intense and more fulfilling experiences.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>To begin: <\/strong>Layla recommends doing this at least three times, but you can go for more if it feels good. Each round builds your body\u2019s capacity to hold intensity without rushing release. What this does is train your nervous system to stay present in the tension, not collapse under it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-bonus-full-body-orgasm-release\">BONUS: Full-body orgasm release<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you decide to let go, this is your moment. You\u2019ve built the wave, you\u2019ve held it\u2026 Now let it flood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Start by turning yourself on in whatever way feels best. Keep the breath deep. Keep the awareness steady.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As climax approaches, inhale and imagine the <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/sexual-energy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">sexual energy<\/a> rising from the base of your body all the way to the crown of your head. Let it fill you, stretch you, and move through you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This is what Layla calls the <em>full-body energy orgasm<\/em>. It doesn\u2019t stay in one place but rather expands and pulses through your entire system.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But one thing that Layla wants you to keep in mind with edging and sex is, \u201c<em>you don\u2019t want to push or force your body into anything<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>If you\u2019re practicing edging, and you go over into a climax, totally fine<\/em>,\u201d she points out. And if you don\u2019t reach the state at all, you can try again next time.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There\u2019s no shame. You don\u2019t need a story. And there\u2019s absolutely no rush.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-is-edging-safe\">Is edging safe?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The short answer is <em>yes, edging is safe<\/em>. Not only that, but when you practice it mindfully and without compulsive habits, it can even be a beneficial sexual technique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Ultimately, it comes down to figuring out what you like and then communicating that to your partner. One type of pleasure is no better or worse than another, as long as you and your partner are both enjoying the ride.<\/p>\n<cite>\u2014 Dr. Amy Killen, trainer of Mindvalley\u2019s The Science of Great Sex program<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Plus, there\u2019s no clinical evidence showing that it\u2019s harmful. Having said that, though, Rena Malik, M.D., a urologist specializing in sexual health, points out in <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/qN23jUSSdVM?feature=shared\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">her YouTube video<\/a> that you don\u2019t want to \u201c<em>take it to extremes<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">She explains that while edging can increase pleasure, overdoing it may come with downsides:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><strong>Blue balls: <\/strong>Discomfort or aching in the testicles from extended arousal without release.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Idiosyncratic masturbation:<\/strong> Developing a style of self-pleasure that\u2019s hard to replicate with a partner.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Delayed ejaculation: <\/strong>Taking longer than desired to climax, even when you want to.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Difficulty reaching climax: <\/strong>Feeling stuck at the edge without being able to finish.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><strong>Sexual dissatisfaction: <\/strong>When edging becomes frustrating rather than fulfilling.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That doesn\u2019t mean you need to swear off edging altogether. When used correctly, edging is a great technique.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>It\u2019s important, of course, if you\u2019re going to participate in edging with a partner, that you talk about it<\/em>,\u201d says Dr. Malik. \u201c<em>Make sure you\u2019re both on the same page and you\u2019re both consenting adults and want to proceed that way<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-edging-for-men-vs-women\">Edging for men vs. women<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While the goal of more control, more pleasure, and learning how to last longer during sex is essentially the same, edging can feel different for everyone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table is-style-stripes\"><table class=\"has-fixed-layout\"><tbody><tr><td><strong>Aspect<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Men<\/strong><\/td><td><strong>Women<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Main goal<\/strong><\/td><td>Control ejaculation and last longer.<\/td><td>Build arousal slowly and enjoy deeper, longer orgasms.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Why people do it<\/strong><\/td><td>To boost stamina and make orgasms stronger.<\/td><td>To enjoy full-body pleasure and stay in the moment longer.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Common struggle<\/strong><\/td><td>Getting too close too fast and finishing early.<\/td><td>Losing arousal or feeling disconnected mid-way.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Hormones involved<\/strong><\/td><td>Driven mostly by testosterone. Quick arousal and drop.<\/td><td>Influenced by estrogen and oxytocin. Emotions matter more.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Helpful techniques<\/strong><\/td><td>Stop-start method, deep breathing, Kegel exercises, squeezing technique.<\/td><td>Breathwork, using sound, slow buildup, clitoral and internal touch.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Mental factors<\/strong><\/td><td>Worrying about performance or \u201clasting long.\u201d<\/td><td>Need for <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/emotional-intimacy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">emotional intimacy<\/a>, feeling safe and relaxed.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Tips for practice<\/strong><\/td><td>Pause right before orgasm. Try solo practice to learn control.<\/td><td>Start slow, use breath and touch to guide arousal. Communicate with partner.<\/td><\/tr><tr><td><strong>Tools to use<\/strong><\/td><td>Edging trackers, cock rings, Kegel trainers.<\/td><td>Vibrators, wands, guided audio, body massage.<\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A male Mindvalley Member who went through <a href=\"https:\/\/stories.mindvalley.com\/product\/neo-tantra-activate-your-sexual-energy-for-ultimate-pleasure\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Layla\u2019s program<\/a> commented that the orgasms he experienced after edging were \u201c<em>so intense<\/em>.\u201d He tried a three, four, and even breathed it back to a 9.5, but \u201c<em>yeah, no\u2026 I went with it\u2014what an amazing release<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">On the other side, a female Member noticed she \u201c<em>usually tenses up into orgasm<\/em>\u201d (which tracks from what Layla says in her program: \u201c<em>So many of us consciously explode or tighten into our orgasmic state<\/em>\u201d). With the help of sound, she\u2019s learning to relax into it and \u201c<em>achieve a [full body energy orgasm]<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Remember: their experiences are uniquely theirs; yours will be your own. But the more you learn your body\u2019s rhythm, the more powerful (and personal) your pleasure becomes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-frequently-asked-questions\">Frequently asked questions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-is-edging-bad\">Is edging bad?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Only if you\u2019ve been taught that pleasure needs to be earned, hidden, or controlled.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The thing is, using sexual techniques to enhance your experience isn\u2019t weird nor a sign that something\u2019s wrong with you. And it\u2019s certainly <em>not bad<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But because most people grow up with <a href=\"https:\/\/pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/articles\/PMC8011625\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">shame or guilt around masturbation<\/a> and confusion about desire. As a result, anything that involves slowing down or tuning in can feel taboo, especially if it doesn\u2019t follow the usual script of sex and release.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That said, like anything, context matters. If edging becomes a compulsive habit that distances you from partnered intimacy or disconnects you from your body, it\u2019s worth stepping back and noticing the pattern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>It is possible to get too much of a good thing<\/em>,\u201d says Dr. Killen in her Mindvalley program. While she was referring to masturbation rather than edging, the message still applies. \u201c<em>Like anything, if what you\u2019re doing is affecting other aspects of your life, you may be doing it too much<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But when you practice it with awareness, edging is just that: a practice. One that can deepen your pleasure, self-trust, and the way you relate to arousal without shame, without guilt, and without needing permission.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-what-does-edging-do-to-testosterone\">What does edging do to testosterone?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Some believe that delayed ejaculation might increase testosterone temporarily. But the fact of the matter is, edging, despite its multitude of benefits, is no testosterone hack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">According to Dr. Killen, broader research shows that regular sexual activity and ejaculation do not harm testosterone levels and may even be beneficial. There\u2019s even one study that suggests ejaculating regularly, especially in men over 40, could <a href=\"https:\/\/www.hsph.harvard.edu\/news\/hsph-in-the-news\/why-more-sex-may-lower-prostate-cancer-risk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">lower the risk of developing prostate cancer<\/a> by helping to remove toxins from the prostate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, while some people might prefer abstinence, Dr. Killen explains that \u201c<em>there\u2019s no strong evidence that abstaining from ejaculation for long periods of time improves testosterone levels, sperm, viability, or athletic performance<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With that being said, it\u2019s always best to choose what feels healthiest and most satisfying for you, even if it means delaying your release.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-can-you-get-backed-up-if-you-edge-too-much\">Can you get \u201cbacked up\u201d if you edge too much?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Contrary to what some might fear, edging doesn\u2019t cause physical harm or lead to any medical issues like prostate problems. Having said that, Dr. Malik did highlight in her YouTube video that it may cause blue balls.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>The reason for this is that when you\u2019re having arousal, blood flow increases to all the pelvic floor muscles, including those that are near the testicles<\/em>,\u201d she explains. Typically, the increased blood flow is released when you climax. However, when you don\u2019t, \u201c<em>the blood flow hangs around and then causes this heavy pressure discomfort feeling<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What it comes down to is, edging can be a healthy part of a sexual routine, provided you\u2019re doing it with awareness and care for your body\u2019s signals.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-how-long-should-edging-last\">How long should edging last?<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Edging is personal, and how long it lasts depends on your personal preferences and endurance. Some might enjoy it for a few minutes before giving in to orgasm. Others might prolong it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019re just starting to experiment with this technique, taking it one step at a time is always advisable. So start with shorter periods and extend the time as you feel more comfortable with edging.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When it comes to sex and all that encompasses it, Dr. Killen\u2019s advice might just hit the right spot: \u201c<em>Ultimately, it comes down to figuring out what you like and then communicating that to your partner. One type of pleasure is no better or worse than another, as long as you and your partner are both enjoying the ride<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-love-deeper-connect-stronger\">Love deeper, connect stronger<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Forget what you&#8217;ve been taught about sex from raunchy Hollywood movies and X-rated shortcuts. The sex worth knowing is about feeling more connected, more confident, and more alive in your own body.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">That\u2019s the whole point of Dr. Amy Killen\u2019s <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/free-classes\/science-of-great-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Science of Great Sex<\/a><\/em><\/strong> program. What you\u2019ll learn with her is\u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Why your libido isn\u2019t broken, and how to wake it back up<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What really causes those \u201coff\u201d days (or weeks) in the bedroom<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How stress, sleep, hormones, and blood flow affect your turn-on<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>The simple shifts that lead to more consistent, connected, toe-curling sex<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you want a taste of what her insights can unlock, start with <strong>a free lesson from the program<\/strong>. It\u2019s a sneak peek into a radically different approach to sexual wellness, backed by science, not guesswork.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>Before this program, I used to feel uncomfortable with my sexual life<\/em>,\u201d says <a href=\"https:\/\/stories.mindvalley.com\/show\/the-science-of-great-sex\/i-have-no-words-to-explain-all-the-changes-in-my-mind-feelings-and-behaviors-around-sex\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Leonor Cabrera Guti\u00e9rrez<\/a>, a manufacturing engineer from Mexico. \u201c<em>Now, I understand that sex is part of being human and the human experience; it&#8217;s wonderful in itself and it helps me to be healthier and live a beautiful and long life<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So if you\u2019re ready to explore what pleasure can look like when it\u2019s rooted in trust, science, and self-love, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/free-classes\/science-of-great-sex\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">watch the free lesson<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Because the best sex isn\u2019t the wildest. 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