{"id":75685,"date":"2024-11-11T10:00:50","date_gmt":"2024-11-11T02:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/?p=75685"},"modified":"2025-04-10T17:05:35","modified_gmt":"2025-04-10T09:05:35","slug":"thought-provoking-questions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.mindvalley.com\/blog\/thought-provoking-questions\/","title":{"rendered":"101 thought-provoking questions to ask about life, love, and everything in between"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have you ever been asked a question that\u2019s left you a little puzzled? A faint hum, followed by an \u201c<em>uhhh\u2026<\/em>\u201d as the gears stop turning for just a second.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Thought-provoking questions<\/strong> can do that to you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No, they\u2019re not meant to stump you or leave you tongue-tied; that\u2019s not their purpose. Rather, they exist to shake up your usual way of thinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But here\u2019s the problem many of us face: According to <strong>Vanessa Van Edwards<\/strong>, a speaker for Science of People and the trainer for Mindvalley\u2019s <em>Magnetic Charisma<\/em> Quest, we often slip into what she calls \u201caccidentally negative\u201d conversations\u2014things like, \u201c<em>The traffic was terrible<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>This weather\u2019s so hot<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Now imagine the contrary: Instead of these typical complaints, asking interesting questions can push us to look deeper, consider new perspectives, spark curiosity, and even inspire action. Plus, they\u2019re a great way to connect more quickly and meaningfully with others.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Next time you\u2019re stuck in small talk (because, let\u2019s be real, who <em>actually<\/em> wants to talk about the weather or traffic?), explore this list. There are 101 questions to truly get to know someone\u2014choose one and see where the conversation takes you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-funny-thought-provoking-questions\">20 funny, thought-provoking questions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The misconception about thought-provoking questions is that they have to be serious so that they garner meaningful, insightful answers. But funny ones can be used as conversation starters as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In fact, research shows that humor not only makes interaction engaging but also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.researchgate.net\/publication\/227935540_Humor_as_a_Double-Edged_Sword_Four_Functions_of_Humor_in_Communication\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">helps people feel closer and find common ground<\/a>. By sharing a laugh, you\u2019re not just breaking the ice; you\u2019re building a connection.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Looking for funny questions to ask? Here are a handful you can consider:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>If animals suddenly gained the ability to use social media, which animal would go viral, and what would they post?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagine your life was narrated\u2014who would be the worst choice to tell your story?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If your life was a movie, what would be the most embarrassing scene?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you had to choose a theme song that plays every time you enter a room, what would it be, and why?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the most ridiculous superpower you\u2019d actually want to have, and how would you use it?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Would you rather your thoughts be broadcast for everyone to hear or have no inner voice at all?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the most absurd rule you would make if you were suddenly in charge of the world?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If emojis were the only way you could communicate, what five would you use the most?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the most ridiculous lie you\u2019ve ever told, and did anyone believe it?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the weirdest food combination you secretly love?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could banish one minor inconvenience forever, what would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s a bizarre talent you have that\u2019s almost useless but still impressive?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagine the most absurd reason you could get arrested\u2014what would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you had to relive the same awkward moment forever, which one would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Describe the warning label that best fits your personality.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagine you\u2019re a flavor of ice cream\u2014what flavor are you, and what toppings describe your personality?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If every time you laughed, something strange happened (like it started raining gummy bears), what would you want it to be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could make one of your habits a new trend, what would it be, and how would people follow it?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the strangest habit you think aliens would find confusing if they visited Earth?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Suppose you could swap your voice with any famous character\u2019s voice\u2014who would you choose?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/30375a3b-thought-provoking-questions-01-funny-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp\" alt=\"Funny, thought-provoking questions\" class=\"wp-image-75690\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/30375a3b-thought-provoking-questions-01-funny-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp 1080w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/30375a3b-thought-provoking-questions-01-funny-mindvalley-blog-pulse-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-thought-provoking-icebreaker-questions\">20 thought-provoking icebreaker questions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">There are times when we don\u2019t have all the livelong day to get to know someone\u2014<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/networking\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">networking<\/a> events, speed dating, elevator pitches, workshops, seminars, community meetups, charity galas, or fundraisers&#8230; the list goes on.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Having a few thought-provoking icebreaker questions ready can be super handy. Not only that, but these questions can also add an element of surprise.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As Vanessa explains in her lesson, \u201c<em>Surprise creates dopamine. We love to be surprised\u2026 it keeps our brain engaged<\/em>.\u201d When we break away from the expected small talk, it keeps things interesting, keeps people curious, and makes interactions more memorable.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, if they\u2019re expecting talk about the weather or traffic, try throwing in one of these questions instead:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"21\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Is there a book or movie that\u2019s influenced your perspective on life?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s a life lesson you\u2019d say everyone should experience firsthand?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s an underrated quality you appreciate in others?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Who\u2019s been a big influence in your life, and how did they shape who you are today?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Have you ever done something that totally surprised you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s a small change you made in your life that made a big difference?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there a passion or hobby you\u2019d love to explore more?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In your opinion, what makes a friendship truly meaningful?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How do you personally define success, and has that changed over time?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could start any career tomorrow, what would you want to do?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there something you wish people understood about you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s one compliment you received that really stuck with you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could have dinner with a historical figure, who would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the one belief or value that matters most to you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could witness any historical event, which one would you choose?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there a goal you\u2019re working toward that\u2019s especially important to you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could make one change in the world, what would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What&#8217;s a skill you&#8217;ve developed at work that&#8217;s unexpectedly helped you in your personal life?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What keeps you motivated when things get tough?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s a moment in your life that totally changed how you see the world?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/5cf9d3d7-thought-provoking-questions-02-icebreaker-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp\" alt=\"A thought-provoking question to use as an icebreaker\" class=\"wp-image-75692\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/5cf9d3d7-thought-provoking-questions-02-icebreaker-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp 1080w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/5cf9d3d7-thought-provoking-questions-02-icebreaker-mindvalley-blog-pulse-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\" id=\"h-download-free-conversation-starters\"><em><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/free-resources\/conversation-starters\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Download free conversation starters<\/a><\/em><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-thought-provoking-questions-for-couples\">20 thought-provoking questions for couples<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you\u2019re starting to get to know someone, it\u2019s natural to be inquisitive. But, as many couples know, conversations can hit a wall.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Vanessa suggests asking yourself, <em>\u201cHow do you want people to feel before, during, and after interacting with you?\u201d<\/em> Thought-provoking questions can help you set that tone\u2014whether it\u2019s a sense of excitement, warmth, or simply comfort\u2014so that both of you walk away feeling closer and truly appreciated.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These questions help you move past the small talk and dive into more <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/mindful-communication\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mindful communication<\/a> that may just reveal things you didn\u2019t know about each other.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"41\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>What\u2019s one thing you\u2019ve always wanted to try together but haven\u2019t yet?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s something you\u2019re really proud of but don\u2019t share with others often?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If we could live anywhere in the world for a year, where would you choose?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What do you think is the most important quality in a strong relationship?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there a book, movie, or song that makes you think of us? Why?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How would you describe the perfect day together?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could change one thing about the way we handle conflicts, what would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s a small thing I tend to do that makes you feel loved?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there something about your childhood you\u2019d like me to understand better?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What do you think our life will look like in 10 years?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could accomplish one big goal this year, what would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s a moment in our relationship that made you feel truly loved?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How do you like to feel more supported during tough times?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s one thing you want us to focus on more in our relationship?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What do you think our biggest strength is as a couple?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How would you describe your ideal future for us?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s one value or lesson you hope we pass on to our kids (or future generations)?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there a part of your life you feel I don\u2019t know much about yet?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How would you define \u201chome,\u201d and how does it feel with us?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s a tough experience that you feel made you a stronger person?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/f0ce5616-thought-provoking-questions-03-couple-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp\" alt=\"Thought-provoking question for couples to ask each other\" class=\"wp-image-75688\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/f0ce5616-thought-provoking-questions-03-couple-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp 1080w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/f0ce5616-thought-provoking-questions-03-couple-mindvalley-blog-pulse-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-20-thought-provoking-questions-for-kids\">20 thought-provoking questions for kids<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s no secret that kids are naturally curious. Parents know this all too well, facing an endless stream of questions about <em>everything<\/em> and <em>anything<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201c<em>What is this?<\/em>\u201d<br>\u201c<em>Why does it do that?<\/em>\u201d<br>\u201c<em>How does this work?<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">While answering these questions can be a handful, asking them back some can be just as powerful. Research shows that thoughtful questioning can <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/pii\/S1871187121000377\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">spark curiosity and help children build on what they already know<\/a>, guiding them to new ideas and understandings.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By asking your little ones questions that make them think, you can give them a chance to explore, imagine, and develop important skills\u2014while having fun, too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"61\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Imagine you could have any animal as a pet, even a wild one. Which would you choose, and why?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>I\u2019m curious\u2014what\u2019s one thing you\u2019d love to learn more about?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the most amazing thing about being human?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A time machine appears in front of you. Do you go to the past or the future? Why?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Can you think of the nicest thing someone has done for you, and how it made you feel?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagine you could invent something to make life easier. What would it do?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Is there something you\u2019d like to teach others?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tell me about one thing that always makes you laugh.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Picture yourself spending a day with any famous person. Who would you choose, and what would you do together?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s something you\u2019ve done that makes you really proud?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s something you\u2019d love to try, even if it seems a little scary?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Describe your idea of the perfect day from start to finish.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Suppose you could only eat one food for a whole week. What would you choose?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagine you could change one thing about the world. What would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Let\u2019s create a new holiday. What would it be all about?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tell me about a big goal you have and what might help you reach it.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>A friend is feeling sad. What would you do to cheer them up?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Can you think of something you learned recently that surprised you?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s something you think adults don\u2019t understand about kids?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In your opinion, what makes someone a good friend?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/48731195-thought-provoking-questions-04-kids-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp\" alt=\"A thought-provoking question to ask children\" class=\"wp-image-75687\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/48731195-thought-provoking-questions-04-kids-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp 1080w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/48731195-thought-provoking-questions-04-kids-mindvalley-blog-pulse-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-21-thought-provoking-questions-about-life\">21 thought-provoking questions about life<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Chances are, you\u2019ve asked or been asked, \u201c<em>How\u2019s life?<\/em>\u201d \u2026 to which the response is typically, \u201c<em>Okay<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Riveting. (Sarcasm, obviously.)<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">But, as Vanessa points out, \u201c<em>when you\u2019re asked about things that make you feel excited, you actually produce dopamine<\/em>.\u201d These questions get a person\u2019s brain off of \u201cautopilot\u201d and instead dive into ideas they might not normally consider.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, instead of asking, \u201c<em>How\u2019s life?<\/em>\u201d try something like, \u201c<em>What\u2019s been on your mind lately?<\/em>\u201d This can be a great way to <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/how-to-start-conversation\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">start a conversation<\/a> that feels fresh and meaningful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">With that in mind, here are a handful of deep questions to ask if you want to skip the usual small talk.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol start=\"81\" class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Think back to a belief you held strongly in the past\u2014how did it change, and what shifted your perspective?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Tell me one thing that people often assume about you but isn\u2019t true.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s the best piece of advice you\u2019ve ever received?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagine having a conversation with your future self\u2014what\u2019s the one thing you\u2019d be eager to know?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Picture yourself spending a day in complete silence. How do you think it would affect your thoughts?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s something you wish people would ask you about more often?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Describe a risk you didn\u2019t take but still think about now and then.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Looking back, is there something in your life that felt like a mistake but turned out to be a blessing?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What would you say has been the biggest \u201cplot twist\u201d in your life so far?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Imagine telling a single story from your life to a stranger. Which story would you choose, and why?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Share a moment you look back on now with gratitude, even if it was challenging at the time.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If someone retold your life as a myth or legend, what would be the main lesson in the story?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>In your opinion, what\u2019s one way technology could redefine what it means to be human?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What do you see as humanity\u2019s greatest challenge for the future?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>How do you think artificial intelligence will shape human relationships in the years to come?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Which traditions or customs do you hope future generations will carry on?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Looking to the future, what\u2019s something you think future generations might wish we\u2019d done differently?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>If you could share one piece of wisdom with the next generation, what would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Picture yourself living anywhere in the universe\u2014where would you go, and what would you hope to find?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Choose one mystery of the universe you\u2019d like to instantly understand. Which one would it be?<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>What\u2019s your greatest hope for humanity\u2019s future?<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image aligncenter size-full\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1080\" height=\"1080\" src=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/5a8176a7-thought-provoking-questions-02-icebreaker-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp\" alt=\"A thought-provoking question about life\" class=\"wp-image-75689\" srcset=\"https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/5a8176a7-thought-provoking-questions-02-icebreaker-mindvalley-blog-pulse.webp 1080w, https:\/\/storage.googleapis.com\/mv-prod-blog-en-assets\/2024\/11\/5a8176a7-thought-provoking-questions-02-icebreaker-mindvalley-blog-pulse-768x768.webp 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1080px) 100vw, 1080px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-spark-conversations-that-matter\">Spark conversations that matter<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We\u2019ve all been there\u2014stuck in a chat that\u2019s going nowhere or recycling the same old \u201c<em>What\u2019s up with this weather?<\/em>\u201d or \u201c<em>How about that traffic, eh?<\/em>\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Thankfully, you now have this list of 101 thought-provoking questions that can change that and open doors to conversations that matter. And when you want to take your conversationalist skills up a notch, you can add to them by downloading <strong>Mindvalley\u2019s The Connection Kit<\/strong>.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This beautiful and colorful deck isn\u2019t just for deep thinkers; it\u2019s for anyone who wants to bond, whether you\u2019re chatting with family, friends, a new love, coworkers, or even kids and teens. As Vanessa points out, these questions help you \u201c<em>sub out autopilot questions for dopamine-producing ones<\/em>.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">So, ready to say goodbye to awkward silences (or, at least, superficial interactions)? <a href=\"https:\/\/blog.mindvalley.com\/conversation-starters-download\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>Download your free deck<\/strong><\/a> and bring on the meaningful conversations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Welcome in.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Asking thought-provoking questions can spark deep connections. 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