"Now I understand people are not negative or positive, we all have different lenses that we observe from"
Chinonyelum discovered that people aren't simply negative or positive—they just see the world through different lenses. This shift transformed their coaching approach, replacing judgment with curiosity and trusting that clients already hold their own answers within.
Before this program, I struggled with people who I viewed as negative. I did not listen to understand, and knew how to help people mainly from what I believed and my faith. Now I understand people are not negative or positive, we all have different lenses that we observe from. Our differences in life require communication, patience, and understanding of one another. As a coach, I now know I am able to help anyone by trusting the process and knowing each person already has the answer they seek within them, and I can help by being curious and asking questions to understand.
Chinonyelum "Chi Chi" Udoye
Life Coach
Maryland, United States
Written 25 February 2020 From our original stories site
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