“My mindset is so much healthier and positive”
Sonya discovered why she kept attracting people with addictions and burning herself out trying to help them. Through understanding her carer patterns, she's learned to love herself, release guilt, and embrace a healthier mindset while planning an exciting new business.
I have such gratitude for the Marisa Peer's RTH for Abundance quest and for the tribe. I think that realising my role as a carer within my family has had a huge impact on me, as I knew I kept attracting people with addictions in to my life and I am a nurse and naturally a carer. I will always be a carer that part of me won't change but now I understand why I attract people with addictions and want to help and heal them, change them for the better, which has at times made me exhausted, burnt out and at breaking point. I now have clarity and understand why I have been doing this for so long. I understand myself and my past patterns. I can see why I was scared of money and why I didn't always stick to a healthy lifestyle. The tribe has been amazing, I have had encouragement and support from people who I will never forget and I've found solace in helping others and have been inspired by some of their stories.
I have learnt to believe in myself, love myself, let go of guilt and if I have any setbacks I am coping better at picking myself up and dealing with the situation. My mindset is so much healthier and positive. I am eating healthier and exercising again.
I am planning ideas for a new business and am going on some courses to help me do this
I have been involved in quite a few self development and healing courses in my life which have all had their place and helped me on my journey through life, but I can honestly say, hand on heart the this RTH for Abundance has been the best quest and most enjoyable I've ever experienced and I found it just at the right time! I love Marisa Peer's RTT and I love the tribe...feeling blessed and relaxed...thank you so much
Sonya Julia
United States
Written 18 November 2025 From our original stories site
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