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Dede Schuhmacher
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Rapid Transformational Hypnotherapy for Abundance

"Thanks to Marisa’s program I stopped the relationship after 3 months, instead of dragging it out for years"

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Dede discovered she was recreating childhood patterns by trying to earn love from emotionally unavailable partners. Through Marisa's program, they found the strength to end an exhausting relationship after 3 months instead of years, and now seek a partnership where they don't have to earn love.

My name is Dede Schuhmacher and I just finished “Rapid Transformational Hypnotherapy”

Before the program I attracted emotionally unavailable and toxic, alcoholic men. I had gotten into a new relationship and was trying to earn his love and to be constantly entertaining. It was exhausting. With Marissa’s course, I was able to realize I was recreating my childhood with my Father and trying desperately to write a new ending…..to be recognized and matter. Yet the man I was in the relationship with was not that interested in hearing what I had to say, he was only interested in talking about himself.

Thanks to Marisa’s program I stopped the relationship after 3 months, instead of dragging it out for years. I was very nice about ending it…. I told him it wasn’t working for me and that I wished him all the love and all the happiness. I felt so good about taking care of me and ending it with no drama.

Now I am looking for a relationship that supports me. Not one that I feel I must earn love by being overly nice and constantly entertaining and being smart.

I feel so free and liberated from chains that kept me trapped trying to earn a man’s love.

Thank you Mindvalley and Marissa Peers


Dede Schuhmacher

Artist

Superior, United States

Lasting Happiness & Joy

Written 13 February 2020 From our original stories site

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