Listen to what you're saying to yourself right now.

Chances are, you're being cruel. Critical. Unforgiving. And you don't even notice it anymore.

You think you have 100 problems in life: your career, your relationships, your health, your time, your money.

But here's the brutal truth: You have ONE problem.

The relationship with yourself. And every other problem? It's just a symptom.

January 18, 2026 | Tallinn, Estonia | One-day immersive experience

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Do This Right Now:

Think about the last mistake you made.

Now notice what your inner voice said about it.

Would you EVER talk to someone you love the way you just talked to yourself?

If not, why do you allow yourself to be treated this way?

You're exhausted. Burned out. You've lost touch with who you really are underneath all the roles you play.

You've tried meditation apps. Self-help books. Maybe therapy. And still, the overwhelm doesn't stop.

Because no one told you the real problem: You're in an abusive relationship. With yourself.

What if everything changes when you fix ONE relationship?

Self-Reset is a one-day immersive experience that does what no book, app, or therapy session has done: It reveals how you betray yourself every single day—and gives you the tools to stop.

The Self-Reset Promise:

By the end of January 18th, you will:

✔ See exactly how you sabotage your own success (and why)

✔ Understand the difference between self-care and self-love (they're not the same)

✔ Break up with self-betrayal—without fanfare or drama

✔ Learn to love yourself when you're LEAST lovable (that's when it matters most)

✔ Walk away with practical tools that work at home, not just in a seminar room

Why This Works When Everything Else Failed

  1. No Spiritual Bypass

    Kristina's no-BS approach means no platitudes, no toxic positivity, no "just love yourself more" nonsense. This is the real inner work you've been avoiding.

  2. Science + Experience

    Knowledge alone changes nothing. This isn't a lecture—it's an immersive experience designed to rewire your brain through the three pillars: knowledge, experience, and reflection.

  3. One Day, One Focus

    Not another 6-week program you'll abandon. One intensive day to solve the ONE problem causing all your other problems. Then you take the tools home and your real life changes.

  4. Built for Skeptics

    If you're rolling your eyes at "self-love" talk, good. Kristina is known for engaging even the most vehement skeptics. She'll earn your trust with critical thinking, not fairy dust.

Envision Your Ideal Future

Create a vision so clear and vivid they become inevitable.

Manifest With Ease

Call on your dreams and desires to show up without struggle.

Accelerate timelines

Discover energetic shortcuts to achieve your goals in record time.

Raise Your Energetic Frequency

Become a magnet for your desires and allow them to come to you on autopilot.

Shift Your Self-Identity

Step into a more empowered version of you.

Dissolve Limiting Beliefs

Eliminate the hidden self-sabotaging patterns holding you in place.

The 5 Shifts That Change Everything

  1. Stop Sabotaging Your Own Success

    The hard truth: Your problems in business, relationships, and health aren't external. They're symptoms of your fractured relationship with yourself. We'll show you how to shift perspective and finally see light on the other side.

  2. Stop Fighting for Time

    Self-love isn't a ritual or daily practice that requires time. It's a relationship. You'll learn the critical difference between self-care and self-love, and stop feeling guilty about "not having time."

  3. Understand What Self-Love Actually Is

    Worried about becoming selfish or narcissistic? Good news: Narcissism isn't too much self-love—it’s a distortion of it. You'll learn how to be your most loyal cheerleader AND your best support, no matter what life throws at you.

  4. Break Up With Self-Betrayal

    True authenticity isn't about "dropping filters" and being rude. It's about giving up self-betrayal. You'll discover exactly how you betray yourself every day—and how to stop this destructive pattern civilly, without fanfare.

  5. Love Yourself When It's Hardest

    Right now you might rate your self-love at 7 or 8. But what about when you fail? When you disappoint yourself? That's when you need your own love most—and when it's hardest to give. We'll teach you how.

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Envision Your Ideal Future

Create a vision so clear and vivid they become inevitable.

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Manifest With Ease

Call on your dreams and desires to show up without struggle.

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Accelerate timelines

Discover energetic shortcuts to achieve your goals in record time.

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Raise Your Energetic Frequency

Become a magnet for your desires and allow them to come to you on autopilot.

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Shift Your Self-Identity

Step into a more empowered version of you.

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Dissolve Limiting Beliefs

Eliminate the hidden self-sabotaging patterns holding you in place.

What Makes Self-Reset Different from Everything You've Tried

Build the Inner Framework First

Before diving deeper, you'll learn foundational skills to accelerate personal growth in ANY area of life. It's like learning the alphabet before reading—you need it no matter what comes next.

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Experience Changes Perception

Knowledge doesn't change anything. Your life changes when your PERCEPTION changes. Experience brings knowledge from your brain into your heart—that's what creates transformation.

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Process to Rewire Your Brain

Experience alone doesn't work either. "What doesn't kill you" can leave you broken. You need a framework to process experiences in an empowering way. That's what rewires your brain for success.

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Tools for Everyday Life

Your life doesn't change at an event. It changes at home, in the office, in mundane everyday circumstances. You'll get practical tools to take this wisdom back into your real life. And change it. For good.

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Process to Rewire Your Brain

Experience alone doesn't work either. "What doesn't kill you" can leave you broken. You need a framework to process experiences in an empowering way. That's what rewires your brain for success.

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Community That Gets It

Mindvalley attracts extraordinary people who understand transformation requires community. Your chances at lasting change are much greater with a caring, supportive community to lean on.

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Your Guide: Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani

Co-founder of Mindvalley. WSJ #1 Bestselling Author of "Becoming Flawesome." And someone who knows what it's like to be at war with yourself.

Kristina grew up in Soviet-era Estonia under oppressive conditions and restrictive norms. Even after building one of the world's premier personal development platforms (reaching 20 million people), she was still fighting herself inside.

Until she chose to forge a life aligned with her true self. Today, after 20+ years in personal transformation, she helps thousands stop betraying themselves and start living authentically.

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Why Kristina?

  • #1 WSJ, USA Today, and Amazon bestseller with "Becoming Flawesome"

  • Creator of transformational programs: "10 Questions for Self-Love," "From Awesome to Flawesome," "Live By Your Own Rules"

  • Host of Mindvalley Book Club (leading authority on personal growth and business books)

  • Member of Forbes Coaches Council since 2019

  • Known industry-wide for her unapologetic no-BS approach to teaching

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The disarming authenticity and no-bullshit approach to teaching

Hear from entrepreneurs, artists, and visionaries who’ve experienced profound transformation with Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani’s guidance. See how breaking free from self-betrayal and embracing authenticity has sparked massive success, deeper fulfillment, and life-changing breakthroughs.

One Day. Three Transformational Phases.

This isn't a conference where you sit and listen. This is an immersive experience built on the three pillars of lasting transformation: Knowledge + Experience + Reflection.

10:00 - 12:00

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Phase 1: Finding Clarity

Do you really love yourself? Or only when you "deserve" it? We start by cutting through the facade and finding clarity about your real relationship status with yourself.

13:00 - 15:00

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Phase 2: Reprogramming

Is it self-love or narcissism? Self-care or coping? We'll dive deep into your beliefs and help you reprogram the buggy software making self-love feel impossible.

16:00 - 18:00

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Phase 3: Empowering

You'll learn and practice powerful tools to make self-love your default state. Imagine redirecting all the energy you waste fighting yourself into something that actually matters. That's where you're headed.

15:15 - 15:45

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Book Signing with Kristina (optional)

Meet Kristina personally and get your included copy of "Becoming Flawesome" signed. Make this experience even more memorable.

Each phase includes immersive exercises and curated reflection sessions. This isn't about inspiration that fades by Tuesday. This is about practical new ways of living that stick.

Why Tallinn? Because You Deserve Beauty.

Tallinn is Europe's best-kept secret—a cozy capital with crispy-clean air, a relaxed vibe, and an Old Town that's a fairytale come to life. The city center is never more than 15 minutes away from anywhere (close to airport, train, ferry), making this the perfect destination for a transformative weekend.

Plus, January in Tallinn has a special magic: quiet streets, winter charm, and the perfect atmosphere for inner work.

For recommendations on where to stay, eat, and explore, check out Visit Tallinn, or follow @VisitTallinn on social media.

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📍 January 18, 2026 | Tallinn, Estonia

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Have a question before you join us? Reach out anytime at support@kristinamand.com

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Safe cancellation policy

Still not 100% sure? That's okay—you don't need to decide right now. Just say "maybe" and secure your spot today.


Full refund available up to 10 days before the event (January 8, 2026). No stress. No awkward emails. No questions asked.

Why? Because after 20+ years in personal transformation, we know your peace of mind matters just as much as your growth.

If you need a refund, simply us at support@kristinamand.com

The Question Is Simple:

The Question Is Simple:

How much longer will you stay at war with yourself?

You've tried fixing the symptoms. The 100 problems. What if it's time to fix the ONE problem?

January 18, 2026 | Tallinn, Estonia | One day to change everything

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But that’s NOT all!

In addition to our life-altering, generous, and 100% risk-free offer, we want to give you a gift.

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Your own signed copy of ‘Becoming Flawesome’ book

Take your transformational experience home. Self-Reset was inspired by the themes and topics in Kristina’s bestselling book ‘Becoming Flawesome’. You get to take your own signed copy home to relive moments of the weekend in Tallinn, and dive deeper into some of the event topics. Plus, it is a beautiful souvenir to take home from the event.

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PLUS Exclusive Meet & Greet with Kristina

In Mindvalley, we don’t believe in the concept of the ‘Green Room’. Kristina will join you for a very special meet and greet session during one of the breaks. It’s your moment to connect with her, share insights, and make your event experience even more unforgettable.

A Private Mingler with Kristina

Reserved for VIP guests only.

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As a VIP guest, you’re invited to spend an unforgettable evening with Kristina Mänd-Lakhiani in an intimate and inspiring setting. This is an opportunity to connect personally with Kristina — to ask questions, share reflections, and enjoy deep, authentic conversations in a relaxed atmosphere.

The evening takes place at Sazerac, one of Estonia’s most exclusive private clubs, usually open only to members. Located in a 14th century building with the breathtaking view to Tallinn’s main square, this place offers a combination of elegance, history, and charm — complete with some of the best cocktails in the city.

Join Kristina and a select group of guests for this special VIP-only gathering. Seats are very limited.

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Frequently asked questions

What's the time commitment?

Will this work for me if I'm skeptical about "self-love" stuff?

I've tried therapy, books, courses. Why would this be different?

What if I can't make it or change my mind?

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