Handling difficult people

…this person she never met and finally found her; out of nowhere this woman shared with my friend how her life has been turned around in a miraculous way after attending a Silva method seminar. After the course I started meditating and programming for my divorce to go through without any conflicts and in another miraculous way it did; even if my ex hated me and couldn't stand talking to me, he helped me sell the house, even pack and move. To conclude, I am looking forward to be part of a Silva grads group after being part of one for almost 3 years; I continue to be part of…

…Apart from that, I have also found ways to keep my calm and avoid arguments. In his book, Silva states "reality is that dream we all commonly share". It has inspired me a lot and I have lesser or close to NO confrontations now. Thanks to Lakhiani who has been instrumental in making the technique into a technology. You are for me the definition of a modern-day…

…That test was the highest score for a class ever in the history with this teacher and in his mind, we were "good students" and became his favorite class from that point forward. His attitude changed towards all of us - he would be more human than ever and he became one of our favorite teachers. Four of my classmates went ahead and took the Silva Method after this event. Many other incredible experiences have happened throughout my…

…(Depending on his parents) So long story... A miracle happened - Soon when I finished, I didn't feel afraid anymore. When he yelled at me, I felt calm. I was able to talk to his parents and ask them to be our mediator because I was leaving. He accepted it without fighting. I paid off my…

…I pictured them both calm and collaborating and both companies benefiting from the project completion. Guess what? Today our rep is in a good mood and back to work. That arrogant manager did apologize and the project keeps running. I am amazed.

…When dealing with a difficult person, I used the Mental Screen to have the difficult conversation while at level, rather than a face-to-face confrontation. The difficult person's disposition was better the next day and thereafter.

…I also experienced more joy in my life, more self-control, and the feeling of being self empowered was great! I have always struggled with the lack of self-empowerment. This made the negative influences from others ineffective for the most part. When I began to feel drained, I would go back into my exercises. It conquered fear and worry for me

…And it seemed relatively EASY! I never blew my top, and I successfully out-maneuvered him at every critical turn. He wanted to dump all his work on me, and it simply did not turn out that way!! I was able to get very good prices on home improvement jobs…

…able to apply that when in the midst of a confrontation and mentally take myself away to the peaceful scene in step number two where your mind completely relaxes and it just fills me with joy and Now I am able to be in those stressful, heated situations but instead of being fearful or nervous or uncertain, I am at peace and centered and even joyful because it just slows everything down and I am able to recall all of God's promises of protection and provision and love for my life. This has been a great blessing in my life. Thank you so much!